Reading about these opinions makes me feel better about how disturbed I was with the film since it's nice knowing I wasn't the only one who was pretty freaked out. I simply had never seen anything as shocking as the urination scene that many have enjoyed posting about in this blog. I was talking to my roommate about this assignment and I convinced her to watch the urination scene on youtube because she wouldn't believe that I had watched something like that in one of my classes. She couldn't watch more than a few seconds of it and said, "Remind me not to take that class." Although I found the film unnecessarily graphic, I at least appreciate that it encourages female resilience and independence against possessive men. For example, I am happy that Luci stands up for herself when her husband speaks rudely to her like when he says "Shut up, this is man's business."
In terms of our class, there were definitely different statements that stirred up emotions. For example, when the husband said "You know I don't like an independent woman" students in the class became alert and seemed to pay more attention. He then said, "Amuse yourself by getting dinner ready" which made a lot of people look around at each other with dropped jaws, and I heard a few guys laugh at this since I'm assuming they thought of this as a "woman joke" that tend to be popular lately. I heard some people whisper "Oh my god." I figure people acted like this because we weren't expecting to see such poor treatment of a wife in the movie.
I think your perspective is really on point. I'm kind of excited to discuss this in class tomorrow just from looking at the things that you and others have said
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I was talking to my roomate and my friends aboutthe movie we watched in class and I think they were just as suprised as your roomate was...they were super suprised that we watched this in class and were telling me that they never wanted to see the movie...although I was disturbed as you were, I can appreciate some aspects of the film that are characterized by women independence and self fulfillment.
ReplyDeleteI'm hoping you convinced your roommate that the class is actually worth taking?
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